As Halloween approaches, it often sparks debate in Malta, particularly on social media. Some argue that this celebration, with its dark themes and macabre costumes, poses dangers—especially to young, impressionable minds. The Catholic Church has often warned against its potential negative influences, urging caution. On the other hand, many feel that these warnings come across as scaremongering, overwhelming the public with fear. It’s a familiar debate: those who view Halloween as harmful and those who simply see it as a harmless, spooky festivity.

As a Catholic myself, I understand the Church’s urge to caution, which comes from a place of care. The Church’s concerns aren’t just about creating fear but are rooted in years of spiritual and pastoral experience. These warnings are meant to protect, reminding us to be vigilant, especially when it comes to matters that can blur the lines between fun and danger. There are spiritual risks the Church is wary of, and their intention is to guard people—particularly the young—from any potential harm that may arise.

But while I can understand and respect this, I am an adult. I know how to navigate Halloween with my head firmly on my shoulders—”rasi fuq għonqi.” But what about our children and teens? Are we, as parents, preparing them and guiding them on how to view Halloween for what it is—just a costume party, a bit of spooky fun, and nothing more? Are we making sure they understand that, like any other tool, Halloween and any other event can be misused by those who might use it to lead others astray? Are we teaching them that even their natural curiosity must have limits, especially during this time, to keep them safe from potentially harmful influences?

So, the real issue isn’t Halloween itself, nor the Catholic Church’s warnings. Everything starts and ends with the family. The question is: Is the modern family aware enough of its children’s and teens’ whereabouts? Are parents vigilant enough to have open discussions about these things? Are we keen enough to guide our children and teens so they can enjoy Halloween and any other event for what they are—without it leading them down risky paths?

Let’s talk about this. Is the family unit equipped to offer this guidance today?